There’s a name that keeps surfacing in AFL conversations even though she’s never worn a Collingwood jumper: Dee Salmin — co-host of triple j’s The Hook Up, author of the debut book It’s Not Love, and partner of Collingwood captain Darcy Moore. This profile sorts the documented facts about her career, age, and relationship from the guesswork, while flagging where the public record runs out.

Instagram followers: 35.9K ·
Co-hosts: triple j’s The Hook Up ·
Debut book: It’s Not Love ·
Darcy Moore’s team: Collingwood Football Club ·
Moore’s role: Captain

Quick snapshot

1Confirmed facts
2What’s unclear
  • Exact age and birth year; 2025 reports said 31, without confirmation (Daily Mail)
  • Whether the 2024 separate-homes arrangement still stands (PerthNow, 2024) (Daily Mail)
  • Details behind her reported decision to skip the Brownlow Medal over a values conflict (The Guardian, 2026) (Daily Mail)
3Timeline signal
4What’s next
  • More seasons of The Hook Up and continued coverage of dating culture (ABC News)
  • Her book It’s Not Love continues to anchor her profile as a writer, separate from AFL coverage (The West Australian)
  • Expect more public attention on every relationship milestone — that pattern hasn’t changed since 2024 (PerthNow)

The verified record separates cleanly from the guesswork.

Nine facts, one pattern: the verified record on Dee Salmin is split between a real media career and a relationship that keeps generating headlines — and the media career comes first in every major profile.

Detail What’s documented
Full name Dee Salmin
Occupation Podcast host, author, writer, content creator (ABC News)
Notable work It’s Not Love, her debut book (The West Australian)
Platform triple j’s The Hook Up, ABC (ABC News)
Partner Darcy Moore, Collingwood captain (The Sydney Morning Herald; PerthNow)
Instagram followers 35.9K (via her public Instagram profile)
Education Bachelor of Arts before WAAPA (The West Australian)
Career start ABC Bunbury; Melbourne from 2019 (The Sydney Morning Herald)
Public profile Dating culture, feminist and sustainability politics (ABC News)

Are Dee Salmin and Darcy Moore still together?

Based on the most recent reporting that states a status, yes. The Sydney Morning Herald (national Australian newspaper) put the couple at three years together in February 2026, and none of the coverage compiled for this profile documents a split.

Current relationship status as of 2026

  • The Sydney Morning Herald’s February 2026 report places the relationship at three years — the strongest status signal available.
  • In July 2024, PerthNow reported that Salmin said she and Moore did not live together at that time.
  • Salmin also said they liked keeping parts of their single lives and would prefer separate bedrooms if they ever shared a home (PerthNow).

The separate-homes detail became news because it undercut the expected AFL power-couple script: two public people, both busy, choosing to keep their own space.

The upshot

Three years in, the loudest story about this relationship remains a living-arrangement quote from 2024. That’s a couple that learned to ignore the noise, not one in crisis.

Public appearances and mentions

  • The West Australian’s profile leaned into Salmin’s candor about Moore, framing him as a “green flag” partner (The West Australian).
  • International coverage from The Guardian also identified Salmin as Moore’s partner in 2026 (The Guardian, 2026).
  • Salmin has attended Collingwood events as Moore’s partner (reported in AFL coverage).
  • Her decision to skip the Brownlow Medal over a values conflict — covered by The Guardian in 2026 — drew national headlines.

The pattern: neither of them leads interviews with relationship talk, yet anything they say about each other — a text, a compliment, a comment about living arrangements — becomes the quote that travels.

What does Dee Salmin do?

Salmin’s professional identity is straightforward: she’s a broadcaster and writer whose beat is relationships and dating culture. ABC News (Australia’s national broadcaster) describes her as a broadcaster who built her profile through exactly that subject matter.

Podcast hosting

  • She co-hosts The Hook Up, triple j’s relationship and dating program — a role she landed in 2022 (The West Australian; Missing Perspectives).
  • Before triple j, she spent more than two years working for the ABC in Bunbury, a regional bureau in Western Australia (The West Australian).
  • The Hook Up is triple j’s dedicated sex-and-relationships slot, which gives Salmin a national perch with younger Australian audiences.

That background matters for how she’s read as a host: she came up through regional broadcasting, then turned a youth-network relationship show into a national conversation. The move from regional radio to national host isn’t unique — other Australian broadcasters have made similar reinventions, including Osher Günsberg.

Writing and publishing

  • Her debut book, It’s Not Love, was covered by The West Australian in a profile that leaned into her reputation for “being difficult.”
  • The book sits in the same territory as her radio work: modern love, boundary-setting, and the gap between how relationships look and how they work.

For a first-time author, the framing was unusually sharp — no soft romance angle, just a direct argument about relationships.

Newsletter and social media presence

  • She runs a Substack newsletter that continues the relationship-and-culture conversation (via her public Substack).
  • Her public Instagram profile counts 35.9K followers (via her public Instagram bio).
  • ABC News has linked her public image to feminist and sustainability politics (ABC News).

The combination — radio, book, newsletter, Instagram — gives her a multi-platform footprint that most relationship commentators don’t have.

Why this matters

Salmin built the platform before the relationship dominated the headlines. If the AFL attention disappeared tomorrow, she’d still have a radio show, a book, and a newsletter audience — the difference between a career and a cameo.

So when outlets describe her as Darcy Moore’s partner, they’re naming a relationship, not defining a job. The job description was written before the relationship was public.

Bottom line: Dee Salmin is a broadcaster and author in her own right — triple j host, book author, newsletter writer — and the relationship coverage is an addition to that career, not the source of it.

The career came first; the headlines followed.

How old is Dee Salmin?

Dee Salmin’s age is one of the few personal details the coverage hasn’t locked down. Multiple reports in 2025 said she was 31, which would put her birth year around 1994 (Daily Mail).

Estimated age and birth year

  • The 31 figure comes from tabloid reporting, not from Salmin herself (Daily Mail).
  • Neither she nor triple j has published a confirmed birth date.
  • Her known timeline — WAAPA education, more than two years at ABC Bunbury, then The Hook Up from 2022 — is consistent with a late-twenties to early-thirties age range (The West Australian).

The most honest summary: “31” is a widely repeated media estimate, and the career timeline is the strongest evidence anyone actually has.

The catch

For someone whose public brand is candor about relationships, age is one detail she’s chosen to hold back — and no reporting has overwritten that choice.

Until Salmin or her publisher confirms a date, her age remains an estimate, not a biographical fact.

Who is Darcy Moore’s partner?

Darcy Moore’s partner is Dee Salmin — a fact established enough that The Sydney Morning Herald treated the relationship as a turning point in the Collingwood captain’s life.

Identity of Darcy Moore’s partner

  • The Sydney Morning Herald’s 2026 feature led with a striking premise: Moore was “single his whole adult life” until a text to Salmin changed everything.
  • The West Australian frames Salmin as a public figure in her own right who is also recognized as Moore’s partner (The West Australian).
  • Tabloid coverage picked up affectionate details between them, including a message Moore sent Salmin that set AFL fans talking (Daily Mail).

What stands out in the coverage is the order of mentions: profile after profile leads with Salmin’s own work, then notes the relationship.

What this means: in the public record, Salmin is never reduced to “Moore’s girlfriend” — the relationship is context, not her biography.

Does Darcy Moore have children?

On the question of children, the record is clean: no reporting compiled for this profile confirms that Darcy Moore has children.

Children status

  • No major outlet covering Moore’s relationship with Salmin has reported children.
  • Public commentary from both focuses on careers, not parenting.
  • As of July 2024, Moore and Salmin didn’t share a home — a detail that drew attention precisely because it kept family plans out of the frame (PerthNow).

It’s the kind of question that gets asked because of what isn’t there: three years of relationship coverage, and no children reporting anywhere in it.

The pattern: the most scrutinized AFL couple of this period has kept family planning entirely out of the public frame — and that silence is itself the only confirmed fact.

What’s confirmed and what’s not

After sorting the coverage, four details are solidly documented and four remain open. The gap between the two lists is where most online speculation lives.

Confirmed facts

  • Salmin co-hosts triple j’s The Hook Up (ABC News).
  • She is the author of It’s Not Love (The West Australian).
  • Her relationship with Darcy Moore reached three years as of February 2026 (The Sydney Morning Herald).
  • As of July 2024, she and Moore did not live together (PerthNow).

These confirmed items come from established outlets — the national broadcaster, a state newspaper, a metropolitan broadsheet, and a WA news site — rather than from social posts alone.

What’s unclear

  • Exact age and birth year — 2025 reports said 31, without official confirmation (Daily Mail).
  • Current living arrangements — the 2024 separate-homes arrangement may have changed.
  • The reasoning behind her reported decision to skip the Brownlow Medal over a values conflict.
  • Any future family plans for the couple.

The same shape shows up across AFL coverage: verified personal details are thin, and speculation fills the gap. When players do open up, one confirmed detail can outweigh months of rumor — Mitch Brown’s story as the AFL’s first openly bisexual player showed exactly that.

Key perspectives

Three voices frame the public picture of Dee Salmin: the national broadcaster that puts her on air, the newspaper that documented the relationship’s origin, and the outlet that turned her living arrangements into a national talking point.

Dee Salmin is a broadcaster who has built a profile through discussion of relationships and dating culture — and turned public scrutiny about her own relationship into a broader conversation about being single, dating, and identity.

— ABC News

Darcy Moore was single his whole adult life. A text to Dee Salmin changed everything.

— The Sydney Morning Herald

A high-profile AFL couple who chose not to live together — a surprising arrangement that became the talk of the league.

— PerthNow

The throughline: each outlet treats Salmin’s own story as the entry point — her radio career, her effect on Moore, or the way her relationship choices challenged expectations.

Where this leaves Dee Salmin

Dee Salmin now holds a rare position in Australian media: a broadcaster with a national radio show and a book, whose personal life reliably generates headlines every time she speaks about it. The next phase depends on which story she lets dominate. For Salmin, the choice is clear: keep building the independent career that puts her on air and in bookstores — or let a headline about Moore write her bio for her. Every interview she’s given suggests she’s already made that decision.

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Frequently asked questions

Is Dee Salmin a journalist?

Not in the breaking-news sense. She’s a broadcaster and author — co-host of triple j’s The Hook Up, which covers sex and relationships, and author of the debut book It’s Not Love. Her work is conversational and opinion-led, not news reporting.

Did Dee Salmin go to university?

Yes. The West Australian reported that she studied a Bachelor of Arts before attending the Western Australian Academy of Performing Arts (WAAPA).

How tall is Darcy Moore?

The verified sources compiled for this profile don’t state Moore’s exact height. Rather than repeat unverified figures, we’re flagging the gap — a reminder that even basic statistics can sit outside confirmed reporting.

Where did Darcy Moore grow up?

Not specified in the sources reviewed for this article. The reporting that exists centers on his adult life in Melbourne and his AFL career with Collingwood.

What degree does Darcy Moore have?

Not confirmed in the sources compiled for this profile.

The remaining gaps in the record are part of the record — no source has confirmed them.